The sluggard is wiser in his own eyes Than seven men who can give a discreet answer.Proverbs 26:16.
….. or through focus on the fulfillment of their desires….
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The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, But the soul of the diligent is made fat.Proverbs 13:4
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For the sluggard, it’s all about “what I want”, pridefully focusing on his desires without demeaning himself by actually needing to work.
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This is similar to the one with insolent pride (narcissist), who also thinks he does not have to work, but can instead focus on what he wants – self-exaltation.
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Better is he who is lightly esteemed and has a servant Than he who honors himself and lacks bread.Proverbs 12:9
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As discussed in a previous post, a narcissist often brags about his “accomplishments” instead of actually working to make them happen – talking instead of working.
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The sluggard and narcissist are different characters, but in some cases share the same traits. In addition to a prideful “know it all” attitude, they are both expert in making excuses or blaming others when they fall short of their responsibilities. Of the sluggard Proverbs says,
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The sluggard says, “There is a lion outside; I will be killed in the streets!”Proverbs 22:13
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There is no lion in the street, the sluggard just makes up stories so that he does not have to go out and actually work.
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What do you do with this? As we have said before, the best thing is to recognize them beforehand and avoid them.
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The prudent sees the evil and hides himself, But the naive go on, and are punished for it.Proverbs 22:3
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If you unwisely hire them (as one example), the next best thing is to place clear boundaries with attendant consequences….
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Judgments are prepared for scoffers, And blows for the back of fools.Proverbs 19:29
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….giving you the basis to kick them out of your business when they inevitably violate the boundaries
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Drive out the scoffer, and contention will go out, Even strife and dishonor will cease.Proverbs 22:10
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Go Deeper: The First Will Be Last
What does the Bible say about narcissism, and how should a believer respond? This book walks through Scripture’s case studies, the key words the Bible uses, and practical counsel for those living or working with a narcissist.
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