Is My Boyfriend or Girlfriend A Narcissist? Ten Questions to Ask

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Proverbs says,

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The prudent sees the evil and hides himself, But the naive go on, and are punished for it. 
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Proverbs 22:3
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Following are ten questions to ask yourself to help determine if you might be developing a romantic relationship with a narcissist.
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Is my boyfriend a narcissist?

  1. Does your boyfriend often talk about himself and his accomplishments?
  2. Does he have a tendency to belittle or criticize others?
  3. Does he have an inflated sense of self-importance?
  4. Does he expect special treatment or to be put on a pedestal?
  5. Does he have a lack of empathy for others?
  6. Does he have difficulty maintaining healthy relationships?
  7. Does he have a need for constant validation and admiration from others?
  8. Does he have a tendency to manipulate or exploit others for his own gain?
  9. Does he have a tendency to blame others for his own mistakes or shortcomings?
  10. Does he have a history of behaving in a controlling or abusive manner towards others?

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Is my girlfriend a narcissist?

  1. Does she constantly seek attention and validation from others?
  2. Does she have a sense of entitlement and believe that she deserves special treatment?
  3. Does she have difficulty empathizing with others and understanding their perspectives?
  4. Does she often blame others for her problems and take little responsibility for her actions?
  5. Does she have a tendency to manipulate and exploit others for her own gain?
  6. Does she have a grandiose sense of self-importance and overestimate her abilities?
  7. Does she have a strong need to be admired and have a sense of superiority over others?
  8. Does she have a disregard for the feelings of others?
  9. Does she have a tendency to become easily jealous or resentful of others?
  10. Does she have a tendency to make everything about herself and not be interested in the lives of others?

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Something to consider…

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