16 These are grumblers, finding fault, following after their own lusts; they speak arrogantly, flattering people for the sake of gaining an advantage.
17 But you, beloved, ought to remember the words that were spoken beforehand by the apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ, 18 that they were saying to you, “In the last time there will be mockers, following after their own ungodly lusts.” 19 These are the ones who cause divisions…..
Narcissists are big flatterers. Many times it is obvious that they have something they are trying to get out of you through flattery and “buttering you up”, but sometimes it may not be so obvious. Or they may be setting you up through flattery for something even worse than just trying to get something from you. Either way, they they are using flattery in order to gain some kind of advantage over you in the pursuit of their desires, self-exaltation, or just plain winning. They are doing it to entrap you into something that will hurt you and benefit them. This flattery is not sincere, but instead is deceptive and manipulative. The wise person will recognize the manipulation and insincere praise, and avoid them..
17 Now I urge you, brethren, keep your eye on those who cause dissensions and hindrances contrary to the teaching which you learned, and turn away from them. 18 For such men are slaves, not of our Lord Christ but of their own appetites; and by their smooth and flattering speech they deceive the hearts of the unsuspecting.
5 A man who flatters his neighbor
Is spreading a net for his steps.
28 A lying tongue hates those it crushes,
And a flattering mouth works ruin.
9 There is nothing reliable in what they say;
Their inward part is destruction itself.
Their throat is an open grave;
They flatter with their tongue.
2 They speak falsehood to one another;
With flattering lips and with a double heart they speak.
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