Narcissistic Traits – Outwardly “Righteous”, Inwardly Rebellious

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Matthew 23:27-28
โ€œWoe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which on the outside appear beautiful, but inside they are full of dead menโ€™s bones and all uncleanness. So you, too, outwardly appear righteous to men, but inwardly you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. .
As we discussedย hereย andย here, the scribes and Pharisees are a particularly robust case study of narcissists. ย  They were experts at putting on a righteous act – partly for show, and partly because they actually believed it (see here) – whileย in reality being rebellious in their hearts toward God.
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This same trait of appearing godly outwardly, but being the opposite inwardly, will also be true of the narcissists that appear in the “last days”, as discussed here.
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2 Timothy 3:5 – holding to a form ofย godliness, although they haveย denied its power;ย Avoid such men as these.
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The key to detecting this is to
  1. watch what they do, and compare it to what they say, ย and
  2. watch what they do in public vs. what they do in private.
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Matthew 23:1-5

Then Jesus spoke to the crowds and to His disciples, saying:ย โ€œThe scribes and the Pharisees have seated themselves in the chair of Moses;ย therefore all that they tell you, do and observe, but do not do according to their deeds; for they sayย thingsย and do not doย them. They tie up heavy burdens and lay them on menโ€™s shoulders, but they themselves are unwilling to move them withย so much asย a finger. But they do all their deedsย to be noticed by men; for theyย broaden theirย phylacteries and lengthenย the tasselsย of their garments.

. . Please seeย Putting “Biblical Perspectives On Narcissism” Into Perspectiveย for an overview of what this blog is about  

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What does the Bible say about narcissism, and how should a believer respond? This book walks through Scripture’s case studies, the key words the Bible uses, and practical counsel for those living or working with a narcissist.

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Narcissistic Traits – They Want To Be The Center of Attention

. Matthew 23:1-7

23ย Then Jesus spoke to the crowds and to His disciples,ย 2ย saying:ย โ€œThe scribes and the Pharisees have seated themselves in the chair of Moses;ย 3ย therefore all that they tell you, do and observe, but do not do according to their deeds; for they sayย thingsย and do not doย them.ย 4ย They tie up heavy burdens and lay them on menโ€™s shoulders, but they themselves are unwilling to move them withย so much asย a finger.ย 5ย But they do all their deedsย to be noticed by men; for theyย broaden their phylacteries and lengthenย the tasselsย of their garments.6ย Theyย love the place of honor at banquets and the chief seats in the synagogues,ย 7ย and respectful greetings in the market places, and being calledย Rabbi by men.

3 John 1:9

I wrote something to the church; butย Diotrephes, who loves to be first among them, does not accept what we say.
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As mentioned above, Narcissists / those with insolent pride want to be the center of attention. ย While they would prefer to have it come by being exalted – as with the Pharisees and Diotrophes – sometimes they will “play the victim” in order to be the center of attention. ย A narcissist’s victim status can take the form of ย “woe is me”, or “my (usually little) problems are far worse than your (usually much bigger) problems”.
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Please see here and here for background on why the Pharisees can be called Narcissists, and here for background on why Diotrophes can be called a Narcissist.

The First Will Be Last book cover - a biblical perspective on narcissism by D.C. Robertsson

Go Deeper: The First Will Be Last

What does the Bible say about narcissism, and how should a believer respond? This book walks through Scripture’s case studies, the key words the Bible uses, and practical counsel for those living or working with a narcissist.

Paperback, Kindle, and audiobook. For daily encouragement, see the 30-Day Journeys devotional series.

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