12 For it is not an enemy who reproaches me,
Then I could bear it;
Nor is it one who hates me who has exalted himself against me,
Then I could hide myself from him.
13 But it is you, a man my equal,
My companion and my familiar friend;
14 We who had sweet fellowship together
Our most painful encounter with a narcissist will very likely be with someone close to us. And especially with someone we thought was a friend. One reason is that when we expected someone to act like a friend and in exchange were stabbed in the back, it is a painful betrayal. The other reason, as David said in verse 12, is that when we are more entangled in a relationship it is harder to avoid them – bringing us painful reminders more frequently. But as David reminds himself and says to the Lord at the end of Psalm 55
22 Cast your burden upon the Lord and He will sustain you;
He will never allow the righteous to be shaken.
23 But You, O God, will bring them down to the pit of destruction;
Men of bloodshed and deceit will not live out half their days.
But I will trust in You.
Here is the entire Psalm