Narcissism Will Increase In “The Last Days”

. 2 Timothy 3:1-7

But realize this, thatย in the last days difficult times will come. ย For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, irreconcilable,ย malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal,ย haters of good, treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these.ย  For among them are those who enter into households and captivate weak women weighed down with sins, led on byย various impulses, always learning and never able to come to theย knowledge of the truth.

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Narcissism “feels” like it is on the increase, doesn’t it?ย  The drive for some groups to absolutely dominate other groups or individuals, and the general Me-Ness of people seems to be dramatically on the rise.ย  While not every characteristic listed here applies directly, two reasons indicate that this list is about narcissists / scoffers / those with insolent pride

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  • First are the key words that these people are “lovers of self”, “boastful”, “arrogant”, “conceited”
  • Second are parallels to other descriptions in the Bible of narcissists / scoffers / those with insolent pride
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2 Timothy 3:7 –ย always learning and never able toย come to theย knowledge of the truth.

is a parallel to

Proverbs 14:6 –ย A scoffer seeks wisdom andย findsย none, ย (see hereย and here andย hereย and hereย for an explanation on how scoffers are narcissists)

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For a second example

2 Timothy 3:5 –ย holding to a form ofย godliness, although they haveย denied its power;ย Avoid such men as these.
is a parallel to
Matthew 23:27-28 –ย โ€œWoe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs which on the outside appear beautiful, but inside they are full of dead menโ€™s bones and all uncleanness. ย So you, too, outwardly appear righteous to men, but inwardly you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness.

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Are we in the last days?ย  It feels like it, and there are early warning signs – but other generations in various places have felt the same.ย  At any rate, with the apparent rise of these people, we need to take Jesus’ admonition to heart
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โ€œBehold, I send you out as sheep in the midst ofย wolves; so be shrewd as serpents and innocent as doves.ย  ย  Matthew 10:16
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(see here and hereย on how we know Pharisees were Narcissists) . Click here for an introduction on how to know God personally
   

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Narcissist* Traits – They Lack Perspective On What’s Important

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Matthew 23:23-24

Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint and dill andย cummin [see note], and have neglected the weightier provisions of the law: justice and mercy and faithfulness; but these are the things you should have done without neglecting the others.ย 24ย Youย blind guides, who strain out a gnat and swallow a camel!

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Narcissism and The Progression of Fools – Introduction

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We have until now focused this biblical study of what the secular world calls “narcissism” primarily on the term “scoffer”, as one of the labels applied to those with insolent pride –ย the Biblical analog to the secular term.

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Proverbs 21:24

24ย โ€œProud,โ€ โ€œHaughty,โ€ โ€œScoffer,โ€ are his names,
Who acts with insolent pride.

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While not specifically called by the English term “fool”, the scoffer is part of a progression of foolishness described in Proverbs, starting with the “simple fool” (or “naive”), and moving all the way to the “committed fool”. ย Each is a progressively greater degree of turning away from God’s wisdom, and walking an increasingly proud and self-seeking path which is independent from God. ย  Pride is a primary root to this self-seeking path independent from God, with increasing insolence up to the level of “insolent pride” (aka “scoffer”) and beyond. ย  Knowing this progression is helpful in identifying at least one of the ways in which someone can become a narcissist.

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The progression is as follows:

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(Types of Fool) ย  ย  naive ย -> ย perverse -> ย scoffing ย -> ย  stubborn -> ย  committed

(Hebrew word) ย  ย ย pthiyย  -> ย  ย ย ewilย  ย  ย  ย -> ย  ย  luts ย  ย  ย  -> ย  ย  ย kecilย  ย  ย  -> ย  ย  ย nabal Continue reading →

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