. 3 John 1:9-10 9ย I wrote something to the church; but Diotrephes, who loves toย be first among them, does not acceptย what we say.ย 10ย For this reason,ย if I come, I will call attention to his deeds which he does, unjustly accusing us with wicked words; and not satisfied with this, he himself does notย receive theย brethren, either, and he forbids those who desireย to do soย andย putsย themย out of the church. .
The tip-off to Diotrephes’ narcissism / insolent pride was his “love to be first among them”. ย His insolent pride resulted in
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- Not accepting what the apostle John was saying.
- Accusing John with wicked words
- Not receiving (ie – providing the opportunity) others who might challenge him
- Getting rid of those who might possibly side with others
Matthew 7:15-1615ย โBeware of theย false prophets, who come to you in sheepโs clothing, but inwardly areย ravenous wolves.ย 16ย You willย know them by their fruits. .
God will ultimately deal with these guys. ย One way of protecting against them is to use a Biblically-basedย church leadership model of shared leadership.
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Go Deeper: The First Will Be Last
What does the Bible say about narcissism, and how should a believer respond? This book walks through Scripture’s case studies, the key words the Bible uses, and practical counsel for those living or working with a narcissist.
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