. 3 John 1:9-10 9 I wrote something to the church; but Diotrephes, who loves to be first among them, does not accept what we say. 10 For this reason, if I come, I will call attention to his deeds which he does, unjustly accusing us with wicked words; and not satisfied with this, he himself does not receive the brethren, either, and he forbids those who desire to do so and puts them out of the church. .
The tip-off to Diotrephes’ narcissism / insolent pride was his “love to be first among them”. His insolent pride resulted in
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- Not accepting what the apostle John was saying.
- Accusing John with wicked words
- Not receiving (ie – providing the opportunity) others who might challenge him
- Getting rid of those who might possibly side with others
Matthew 7:15-1615 “Beware of the false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves. 16 You will know them by their fruits. .
God will ultimately deal with these guys. One way of protecting against them is to use a Biblically-based church leadership model of shared leadership.
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Go Deeper: The First Will Be Last
What does the Bible say about narcissism, and how should a believer respond? This book walks through Scripture’s case studies, the key words the Bible uses, and practical counsel for those living or working with a narcissist.
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