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As mentioned here, narcissists tend to stumble a lot. ย One reason (of several) they stumble is that they lack good judgment. ย Jesus referred to the Pharisees’ lack of perspective and lack of good judgement by saying of them:
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Matthew 23:24
24ย You blind guides, who strain out a gnat and swallow a camel! ย ย
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The Pharisees had little or no perspective on the relative importance of things (we see that the Pharisees were narcissists here and here). ย Secular literature on narcissism also refers to narcissists’ lack of perspective on the relative importance of things – see here.
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Another reason that narcissists lack good judgement is that they are unwilling to receive counsel. ย Proverbs is clear about the need for counsel……
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Proverbs 11:14ย – Where there is no guidance the people fall, But inย abundanceย ofย counselors there is victory
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but narcissists resist going for counsel as that process also opens them up to possible criticism.
A scoffer does not love one who reproves him, He will not go to the wise.
[Scoffers is one of the Biblical terms for narcissist (see here, here,ย here)]
The scoffer / narcissist’s unwillingness to listen to counsel is itself a lack of good judgment….. resulting in not having the good counsel needed for making wise decisions.
* narcissist is a common use colloquial term for what the Bible calls “insolent pride”. ย See here.
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