Consequences of Being A Narcissist – In the End, People Do Not Want To Be Around You

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The devising of folly is sin, And the scoffer is an abomination toย men.ย 
Proverbs 24:9
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“Scoffer” is one of the names given to people with insolent pride…….
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โ€œProud,โ€ โ€œHaughty,โ€ โ€œScoffer,โ€ are his names, Who acts with insolent pride.ย 
Proverbs 21:24
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…….And insolent pride is the Biblical term for narcissism (see here). ย So, “scoffer” is one of the descriptive names the Bible gives to what we today call a “narcissist”.
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Narcissists (those with insolent pride) want (or even demand) to be exalted, but the things they do in their drive to be exalted ultimately turns people off – to the point that people can’t stand being around them. ย Of course, their charm may allow them to get away with it for a little while, but at some point their lifting themselves “up” (and simultaneously putting those around them “down”) catches up with them. ย Its not a matter of “if”, but “when”.
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The result is that the narcissist gets the opposite of what he is seeking. ย He is seeking to be admired, and instead in his selfish pursuit becomesย despised. ย Jesus made this very clear when describing the Narcissists of His day – the Pharisees. ย In the middle of describing their insolent pride, He explained how things really work:
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Whoever exalts himself shall be humbled; and whoever humbles himself shall be exalted.ย 
Matthew 23:12
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In his pursuit of exaltation, the narcissist winds up being humbled.
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* “Narcissist” is the current colloquial term for what the Bible calls “insolent pride” (see here)
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